Vol.23 No.1 May 2004
by Dr. Waylon B. Moore
The concept of reverse mentoring sent a shock wave around the business world when
Jack Welch, then Chairman of General Electric, instructed 600 of his top managers to reach down
into the lower levels of their organization to find internet junkies, and learn about the internet.
Mentoring is valuable at any age, but especially powerful when an older leader is open to learn
from someone with ability outside the leaderís immediate circle. Iíve been surprised, being asked
to do reverse mentoring with some leaders over me. My life has also been enriched as a receiver
of reverse mentoring from younger men whom God placed in my path and ministry. Are you open to
Let me share two treasured learning experiences from my past in this principle. Dawson Trotman
was President of the Navigators, and on the Board of Wycliffe Translators and World Vision. He
originated the successful individual counseling and follow-up ministry, while a member of the
Billy Graham Team. I vividly remember hearing him share at a conference about a recent change
of course in a certain matter. Let me tell you how the Lord has been teaching me recently.
Iím a board member of a new organization called Campus Crusade. The President is a wise, young
businessman named Bill Bright, who has started university evangelism at UCLA.
Recently, Daws went on, Bill privately asked to talk with me, and then
confronted me hard. He had heard me speak negatively about the lack of spiritual commitment of
college and seminary graduates. Many of those I had discipled while in the military, started
to college and graduate school after WW II. A lot of these men began to drop their disciplines
of Scripture memory, quiet time, and daily witnessing. Since then Iíve not wanted potential
Navigator staff to be in higher education. But God used Bill to change my mind.
Bill asked me quietly, Daws, could you use 20 new workers with college and seminary
degrees, who are in the Word, disciplined, and winning others to Christ, and who have a great
work attitude? Sure, I told Bill. Then Bill said, Guys are joining us
who are just like you want, and they all have college and many have seminary degrees. Daws,
youíll never get close to this kind of man being so negative about education! Itís like youíre
trying to recruit people and then hitting them over the head with a baseball bat.
Then Daws smiled: You can learn a lot if you are open to listening to a guy. Bill was
right. Iíve seen that education doesnít make or break a man; it simply reveals him.
Trotman immediately changed his recruiting focus. At that time I was one of only two Nav staff
with a seminary degree. As a result of that decision, that Fall Daws sent me, a single guy,
to start a Navigator training home in Dallas, TX. The young Bill Bright was a reverse mentor,
learning from Board member Trotman; but Bill also made a major contribution to Trotmanís ministry.
The next day Daws took me aside and said, You had preaching classes at seminary, didnít
you? Yes, I did take two courses. Daws then shocked me, I want you to
critique my next message; help me speak better. Who am I to critique you, Daws?
I want you to help me do better. I never started to college. Watch me, O.K?
I agreed. I gave great attention to his total message, gestures, and voice. After the message,
he motioned me forward. I know you saw something. What was it, Waylon? It
was nothing, Daws. It was insignificant. Your message was empowered. Daws insisted,
Tell me what you saw!
Well, your hand gestures are excellent, yet you kept putting one hand in your pocket
and I heard coins clinking from the third row. Ooooh, Daws groaned, hurting.
I really thank you. He instantly removed the change and dumped it into his back
pocket. Giving me a hug he then invited me to eat. I never heard him rattle change again
the next 40 messages over a 5-year period. Daws remains in my heart, the most consistently
effective communicator of Scripture
and its application to life Iíve ever heard.
Daws had experienced reverse mentoring. What is it? It happens when the mentoree mentors
the mentor. When someone in a level of management or authority is open to learning something
deliberately from a younger or lower-level management employee. This person whose experience
levels are high listens to gain an insight, learn a craft or a skill, or see a totally
different perspective than his current track. When he or she is open to someone with less
experience, thatís reverse mentoring. Wise mentors are always open to the Lord and to others.
They are continual learners. They want Godís best, so they are open to change. The mentor
recognizes when God is working through someone younger, less known. The mentor is not afraid
of reverse mentoring; rather he
encourages it and grows.
Reverse mentoring in the Bible
God uses the unnamed, the little mentorees in the lives of major people in the Bible.
Itís reverse mentoring. Recall the servant girl of the wife of Naaman the leper? This mentoree
taught her mistress about the prophet, Elijah, and about Godís power. Soon the remarkable Naaman
was healed (2 Kings 4:1-8).
Consider the unnamed servant who gave David, a young sheepherder, an introduction to Saul. The
recommendation was so strong (though not all true) that David was immediately brought from the
pasture to the kingís court (1 Sam. 16:16-20). Later on, David, a country mentoree to the house
of Saul, found a peer mentor, Jonathan. The kingís son loved David, and was superseded by him as
the next king and poet of the greatest hymnal, the Psalms.
The mentoring pictures of Paul and Barnabas stretch through Acts. The mentor, Barnabas, has a
pupil, mentoree Saul. Later Barney has a
peer relationship with Paul as they travel in ministry. As the story unfolds, through
Godís grace, Paul becomes a
pacesetter to Barnabas and others. Read how the former mentoree at Antioch stands against
the Apostle Peter and mentor Barnabas. They were afraid to eat with Gentiles, choosing the law
and Jerusalem over grace and Antioch (see Galatians 2:11-20). Sometimes the mentoreeís ministry
is gifted to be deeper and broader than his mentorís. What a thrill to see those I mentor move
beyond my limitations. Itís also true that reverse mentoring doesnít always work. Peterís advise
to Jesus to miss the cross (Matthew 16:21-24) was rejected as Satanic counsel.
Surprises in reverse mentoring
Many large-church pastors, including Andy Stanley in the Atlanta area, have immediate staff
evaluations of each sermon and of the worship service. For years, Billy Graham has used different
Research Assistants as mentorees. Their ministry was to read, collect and organize quotes and
notes on many topics. These were discussed with Dr. Graham and some became part of his sermons
Ed Young, Jr., pastor of Fellowship Church, Grapevine, Texas, has over 15,000 attendees
listening to his messages on a weekend. I heard him say that his sermon preparation involves
discussions of up to five hours with six chosen staff about each message. They start with
a topic or need. Then any of the group may offer comments, questions, and Scripture suggestions.
Mentorees have stimulated, changed, and upgraded my life and ministry over the years. They
shared their expertise with me about computers, or investment, or modern church planting
my ministry expanded. Each person I mentor is given the right to hold me accountable, as I do
him or her, for anything we agree to do together. Iím even more motivated, in turn, to study
and stay on the cutting edge. I recall three men whom Iíd mentored inviting me for breakfast.
I discovered I
was breakfast, as they lovingly exhorted me, and led me to see a blind spot in
my life. God brought conviction and change that week in me. My two grown children, Bruce and
Martha, have many times given me wonderful reverse mentoring with cut-to-the-point counsel
about my ministry, questions about my personal life, and even tips about clothes. Iím much more
effective because of them.
Each of us needs this fellowship of accountability in order to grow with consistency. Seeing
someone mature in his walk with Christ whether that be your pupil or
yourself is truly an ultimate thrill (see 1 Thessalonians 2:19-20; Philippians 1:22-24)!
Iron sharpens iron, so a man does the countenance of his friend (Proverbs 27:17).
www.coachingandmentoring.com from the Center
for Coaching and Mentoring, April 22, 2004.
Great Mentors I Have Known
Imagine a chubby lady with thick glasses, dressed in red with a flamboyant hat, multiple
rings, and pizzazz! She speaks with passion and commitment . . . strong, warm, and full of
the Bible. Thatís Henrietta Mears, one of the great mentors I have known. God used her deeply
in the beginning ministry of Billy Graham. He wrote about her,
I doubt if any other woman outside my wife and mother has had such a marked
influence on my life. She is certainly one of the greatest Christians I have ever known.
Never marrying, she had hundreds of spiritual children. She became Educational
Director at Hollywood Presbyterian. Some of her many mentorees included Dick Halverson, who
became Chaplain of the US Senate, Bill & Vonette Bright, along with Dr. Bob Munger.
They found in this older lady a vision for a great God. She was a model of
Christ-centeredness. With her drive for souls, and ability to plan and prepare, the church
grew with a great pastoral team to over 4,000! On Sundays for Bible Study, I heard her talk
to 500 university students and singles. Many of the church Bible study groups attracted
businessmen and well-known movie stars to Christ. Needing strong biblical literature for
hundreds of new believers, she began to write her own, and Gospel Light Press was born.
She also bought and directed Forest Home Conference grounds.
I met Miss Mears when she was mentoring Bill and Vonette Bright; they lived with her near
the UCLA campus. For a 6 a.m. Bible study I can still see her appearing down a winding
staircase, smiling, perfectly dressed, and full of energy. She spoke loudly to our
sleep-startled group of guys, Well, whatís the Lord taught you since you got up this
morning? All was quiet. She would look us over, then share something from the
Scriptures that blessed her. You didnít meet her again without time with God. She was
a pacesetter, a confronter with the anointing of the Spirit. Her goal: Only the best
possible is good enough for God. She had a world vision. She prayed with an openness
to a limitless God.
With the multiple millions who have been saved through the ministries of Graham and Bright,
Miss Mears shares in those and many other harvests. She was nearly blind, and could read
only with great difficulty. She said about this challenge,
My failing eyesight has been my greatest spiritual blessing. It has kept me
absolutely dependent on God.
Order her biography!
Dream Big: The Story of Henrietta Mears, Gospel Light Press.
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PRAYER & PERSONAL
In April it was a joy to teach mentoring to the North Germany
IMB missionary team, see
Marthaís university ministry, and be with
FBC, Brandonís great volunteer group.
Martha arrives in July for three months of furlough and solid family time. Weíre seeing
growth and new families each week at son,
Bruceís pastorate, at CrossPoint Church. It is a constant
challenge. I am facing a physical challenge involving surgery soon.
PRAY for the right decision and recovery.
PRAY for a
office person to help with Missions Unlimited.
Clemmie needs rest after 30 years from details, orders, and accounting. We are
so thankful for you and your teaming with us in His ministry to raise up multiplying